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Lostinthought

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I need help
« on: November 01, 2011, 10:49:14 am »
Hello Learn To Date i was recently browsing through your dating tips and forums when i came to the conclusion of hey wonder if they can solve my problem that me and my fiance is having.

Ok here is the problem lately she has been looking down upon me and some days everything goes well but its like when her friends come around she change into a whole other person so now I fear that she will leave me for another man and i do not even know the problem. I am a nice guy through and through and always ask her what she wants to do I always ask her opinion on things and when she asks me I say baby you choose. Pls help me i will be waiting for your reply on how to fix this.

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Re: I need help
« Reply #1 on: November 01, 2011, 11:23:44 am »
Hey there lostinthought glad to have you join our forums, I read your problem it seems as if your Fiance is losing interest in you at the moment but wait do not worry about it the fact that you are still together is a good sign that you can make a comeback. Now if she changes how she acts when her friends are around and looks down upon you, this makes me believe that either they are talking behind your back trying to get her to leave you for another man because she explains her problems to her friends. This is common in friends i will try my best to help you avoid a let down or the loss of your fiance.

From what i gather, the last few things you have said can be the problem.

A) you are a nice guy through and through

B) you let her choose everything and when she asks you to choose you tell her to choose.

Ok from what is stated above you are now considered to be a boring man and from that you changed her view on you, I have a question do you remember how it was when you guys first hooked up?

The reason I say you have become boring is you are a nice guy so you are predictable at every turn you are not being dominant which females crave.
The second reason is that you always tell her to decide on something, this is also boring you are a man you need to be spontaneous and keep her guessing on what you are going to do next or else the relationship will feel as if it was a routine or cycle that repeats over and over. Hope this helps feel free to ask any questions if you are still having problems
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« Reply #2 on: November 03, 2011, 01:16:12 pm »
thanks for replying to my situation i admit at first i took offense to what you have said about me being a boring man and started to think what does this guy know this is just online this can be fake. I say im sorry for that because with me being upset with reading what you wrote to me i took that anger into the car with my fiance and she asked what are we going to eat, i immediately said wherever i feel like eating and it was strange she actually smiled as if pressure was taking off of her shoulders and she started to act different a bit towards me any other tips you can help me with i will surely appreciate it?

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« Reply #3 on: January 17, 2012, 07:26:26 am »
Sorry so late to respond but from here it seems you understand what i was trying to get at I do apologize for making you upset because that was not my intentions but it looks like it worked out in your favor glad i could be of service
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