learntodate

Sorry so late to respond but from here it seems you understand what i was trying to get at I do apologize for making you upset because that was not my intentions but it looks like it worked out in your favor glad i could be of service

What signs do you see yourself doing that makes you understand you are in love with a particular female.

  Well the other stuff I haven't quite tried but I've a few lady friends who notice me more just because I give off more confidence around them. My approach used to be subtle, which didn't go over well for me. I'm not saying run into their face screaming "HEY I'M CONFIDENT" But rather let your body motions convey it for you, but much quieter if you get what I'm trying to say. It seems to work for me miraculously.

Thanks for answering me so quickly dating I tried what you said today at school. I was talking to another guy at the time he usually passes by. I was just asking this random guy if he knew where a class was and the guy was giving me the direction when the guy passed by. He immediately came over to me and said hey to me and he usually never speaks to me at school so for now your advice is working he even grabbed my shoulder and walked me to class I would like to say thank you so much for your help i will continue to give you updates so you can help me if i need anymore advice thanks again so happy

Hey there lostinthought glad to have you join our forums, I read your problem it seems as if your Fiance is losing interest in you at the moment but wait do not worry about it the fact that you are still together is a good sign that you can make a comeback. Now if she changes how she acts when her friends are around and looks down upon you, this makes me believe that either they are talking behind your back trying to get her to leave you for another man because she explains her problems to her friends. This is common in friends i will try my best to help you avoid a let down or the loss of your fiance.

From what i gather, the last few things you have said can be the problem.

A) you are a nice guy through and through

B) you let her choose everything and when she asks you to choose you tell her to choose.

Ok from what is stated above you are now considered to be a boring man and from that you changed her view on you, I have a question do you remember how it was when you guys first hooked up?

The reason I say you have become boring is you are a nice guy so you are predictable at every turn you are not being dominant which females crave.
The second reason is that you always tell her to decide on something, this is also boring you are a man you need to be spontaneous and keep her guessing on what you are going to do next or else the relationship will feel as if it was a routine or cycle that repeats over and over. Hope this helps feel free to ask any questions if you are still having problems