There are many reasons to leave one's mate but only some are the right reasons Datingcasanova here trying to help people improve on their decisions to leave their mate.
So your mate has not cheated but you are still wondering should i leave this person because I am unhappy? Well to answer this question have you talked to your partner about your unhappiness. If so continue on.
We are only human so we miss the little things that we do to harm our mates and viceversa. Your mate comes home late from work a lot of days out of the week. So immediately you suspect cheating so you hire a pi or you go to his/ her job and see his/her car there and you try to pop in for a surprise visit and boom she is not cheating so now you are standing looking like a fool because you thought she had broken your trust but in reality you broke his/hers because you could not trust his/her words! Now things at home are going from bad to worse and you tried to explain I was unhappy I thought you were cheating on me I am sorry and You do things everyday to show him/her that you are sorry, but he/she wont let the issue die down, so everyday you are arguing about the same situation, this is okay because you deserve this and this is his/her way of punishing you for not trusting him/her. Then you finally get him/her to stop after SHOWING that you are willing to make up for it. Now things are moving smoothly heck even better than when you were just unhappy, you are loving everything you two talk about and one night BOOM he/she brings up something that you worked so hard to get them to forgive you for and now she/he is threatening to leave you over it.
Lets stop for a second because i would like to say it should only take 4 months max for a person to get over something
Lets continue on.
So you are now scratching your head about the situation like I thought I showed you that I am sorry everything is going good why start problems now? This is when it is time to leave your mate because this means your mate knew you were unhappy infact you talked to him/her about it and they purposely did things to keep you unhappy and when they realized you were smiling and truly happy the did not want that because himself/herself loves to be in misery and you do not want to be in an unhealthy relationship like that so get a plane,bus,train ticket and get away so that person can not reach you! There is nothing you can do to make a genuinely unhappy person happy and you will kill yourself trying to do so and in the end you will always fall short
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