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Hello Learn To Date i was recently browsing through your dating tips and forums when i came to the conclusion of hey wonder if they can solve my problem that me and my fiance is having.

Ok here is the problem lately she has been looking down upon me and some days everything goes well but its like when her friends come around she change into a whole other person so now I fear that she will leave me for another man and i do not even know the problem. I am a nice guy through and through and always ask her what she wants to do I always ask her opinion on things and when she asks me I say baby you choose. Pls help me i will be waiting for your reply on how to fix this.
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Things that make you auto Qualify with women / Approach
« Last post by datingcasanova on October 30, 2011, 01:47:26 am »
datingcasanova here and I am here to tell you about approaching a woman.

Approaching a woman can be done in many ways and can lead to let downs that so many of you fear today.
The art of approaching is making a woman feel as if she is having a casual conversation with this interesting guy.
So with that being said you can take a direct or indirect approach, an example of an indirect approach is approaching a woman in the bar you are in and asking her what she is drinking because you are new to bars, she will then either tell you or tell you to buzz off this way you haven't been rejected by her(safest way) or you get her attention for awhile to start a decent conversation.

A direct approach is the other way to approaching a female, this way can leave you looking shamefully in the eyes of rejection.
Direct approach sometime works but most of the time it will be a let down for the person doing the approaching. I will now tell you why.Directly approaching a woman can have them feeling pressured/against the wall/creeped out/etc. Woman are fragile and are easily frightened so try to understand, you being a stranger approaching her while she is alone. Direct approach can also work in your favor it shows that you aren't afraid of rejection and that you can have a woman like her at anytime so she is lucky you chose her!

Now for the killer most men don't know what to talk about when they do engage into a conversation with a female the guy is either shocked or thinking too much instead of letting it flow out naturally.
The key to talking and approaching a woman successfully is talking to her like you would any other woman that you know and or friends with this will make you seem more genuine and her wanting to get to know you a little better!

Thanks again for taking the time to read this all feel free to comment below on your thoughts
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Join Social Network / LTD Social Network
« Last post by datingcasanova on October 29, 2011, 11:36:39 pm »
datingcasanova here giving you the link to the social network add photos chat write on group wall chat with friends everyone is free to join and it is all free!

http://learntodate.grouply.com/
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Things that make you auto Qualify with women / Confidence
« Last post by datingcasanova on October 29, 2011, 10:02:05 pm »
Hello Fellas datingcasanova here

I have a question for you do you have the confidence to land the woman of your dreams or are you scared of the big let down?

You are scared? that's to be expected but the bad thing about that is women love confident men they might not show it but they love love love confident men it gives them a sense of safe security( if something goes wrong he will take care of it no questions asked). Haven't been hitting the gym lately? feel you don't look up to par for that perfect woman? I will stop you right there woman don't really care if you are in shape(that will be part of the challenge that women try to find in an edgy dangerous man) so don't let your body slow you down when it comes to landing that big fish in the small pond. Confidence is the key to success in everything if you believe you will succeed most of the time you will or get very close to it.

Ok now to get into the meat of confidence in a case scenario: There is this beautiful woman who looks like she stepped out of a poster board who gives off the vibe of a classy woman(right then and there i cant get her she is too good for me i cant have her she will use and abuse me,this is what will be going on in your head without confidence making you miss the smile and wink she just gave you inviting you in to talk to her). Be confident step up to her with your head held high engage into a conversation and despite your appearance she will respect you as if you dated woman like her all the time
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Things that make you auto Qualify with men / Class
« Last post by datingcasanova on October 29, 2011, 09:50:14 pm »
Hello Ladies
How to auto qualify with men
Do you have the class to be a lady when its time to be a lady do you have to class to laugh at corny jokes and not think its below you? To sum it all up.....Do not judge a man 100% by his first impressions give him a chance then later you will see the real him if you leave in the middle of the date because he is not what you expected then you could ruin his self-esteem or miss out on a good man who would take care of you for the rest of your life and so on, remember everyone is unique and their uniqueness might be strange but they can be your soul mate had you waited the time to find out!

 I believe that the  most important  thing to tell  women about men is that a man knows when he says a lame joke(it will replay in his head having him saying stupid stupid why did i say that corny joke) and if you laugh he will say she's a keeper most of the time, it makes a man feel that you are interested in him and that he can accomplish anything with your support so he will  naturally want to keep you around.
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Things that men like in women / What men want and expect from a woman
« Last post by datingcasanova on October 29, 2011, 09:42:47 pm »
Hello all datingcasanova here and I am here to explain to you about what men want and expect from a woman when they first meet them.

The first thing is men are men ladies first you have to get that through your heads and realize men will do dumb things to try to impress you so to win some points from the man you are pursuing just laugh genuinely and say something like I am impressed they will then open up and allow you to know the real them inside that hard MAN exterior,

What men look for in women is A) how is she dressed!(one of the most important, governs the way a man will approach you)  B) Is she presentable to my friends without giving off the vibe that she will have sex with one of them behind my back?( Another important one, men like to show their women off and throw her in their friend's faces basically saying Look at what i have you cant have this special one of a kind person.) C) Will she be loyal if I am looking for something long term?(will you cheat because the relationship is going bad or will you try and dig deep to keep the relationship a float?)


A) Men are most of the time lead by our hormones so if we see a woman who is dressed in a certain way we will approach them based on how they are dressed IE: Woman dressed showing a lot of skin( looking for a quick fling/one night stand is our approach),
Woman dressed showing some skin and some coverage(lady in the streets freak in the sheets, we are thinking we found the perfect woman she is classy outside the bedroom but has a great sexual appetite inside the bedroom),
Woman dressed covering everything men think(will take to long to get her to open up to me, while talking to her i will have desires and will sleep with other women while I am trying to build a relationship with her, so men will naturally say why bother it's too much work and what if i end up hurting her(the game of chase failed women for the first time).

B)Are you presentable men like to show women off to impress their friends and also to say haha you cant have her, so mainly the question here is are you presentable enough to be shown off? do you wear your best dress when he takes you out do you wear your best clothes when his friends come over ,do you kiss him 20 times while they are over showing that you love him and there is no room for anyone else basically show him and his friends how much you love him and he will be happy and show it in return making your life like a dream.

C) He has just gotten fired from his job and those bills are due, do you pressure him about the bills or do you say i will handle the bills until you get back on your feet? Him being fired,leg was cut off,or is under a lot of stress and he raises his voice at you and tell you to leave him alone do you cry and make it all about you do you get upset and want to get even so sleep with his friends or friend or do you tell him you understand everything will be alright you are there for him if he needs you? men are looking for you to tell him you understand and that everything will be alright and you being there for him just like women love to hear that from their men.

Hope you enjoy and learned something about men today ladies as i say these are tips and are not always the way life plays its role but these are the most common situations try it out if they work and you are ready to move to the next step Learn To Date have cheap 5 page guides to help you get that 1 night stand or long term relationship you are looking for!
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Things that women like in men / What women want and expect from a man
« Last post by datingcasanova on October 29, 2011, 09:19:47 pm »
Hello everyone datingcasanova here and I am here to get you started in learning what a woman expects when she meets a man for the first time.

The first thing that a woman will judge a man on is his appearance and no I am not talking about how you look physically, I am talking about, do you look like you shower, do you look as if you groom yourself before you step outside, do you dress appropriately(more on this later).

The next thing a woman will judge you on is how you approach her, A) will you approach her in front of her friends and ask her out(Automatic turn down),B) will you approach her at the store to help with her bags(+1 point in the friend direction, +.5 points in relationship direction), C) will you approach her at a bar with a shirt and tie(Automatic turn down).

I will now explain my reasons for the above statements, A) women commonly have low self-esteem do to past relationships and the fact that it's the nature of their being, so approaching a woman in front of her friends heightens her sense of importance,  giving her attention and her friends something to talk about, having the spotlight on her  for the day(women crave attention). The correct thing to do in that situation is to approach the crowd of women eying all of them and saying something cocky an ex: Ladies all of you are beautiful cant find the words to say....and just walk off at that point.(who looks the best out of all of us...is what is going through their head with this approach you then find the one ALONE you had your eye on and tell her she was the most beautiful)

B) Woman are mostly looking for adventure and for fun men who are out going, therefore helping with her groceries will most of the time end up helping you in 2 ways in the friend zone and in relationship zone. Being at a grocery store as a man is not all that bad unless you are not dressed as if you were going to a club or bar, bringing us back to appearance your appearance can give a woman a sense of adventure,danger,fun, and challenge. So if you dress boringly you will give off the persona of a boring person(sorry tie and slacks you didn't win this round). On the other hand helping with her groceries means you are considerate of others and do not always think of yourself (be careful those types end up in the friend zone) so to mitigate the +1 friend to +.5 relationship tell a joke while smiling as you help her, before she says thank you walk off as if you are not interested in her.(the magic has been worked now she wants to see more of you)


C) 75% woman who go to the bar are either divorced, work there, or looking for a one night stand to make them feel better about their life. If you approach a woman at the bar as i stated above about women love the sense of danger,adventure, and challenge wearing a shirt and tie will fail you at this point.(only attracting prostitutes because they will think you are rich). When you step out into a bar wear a shirt that is bold and at the same time appropriate( tanktops=one night stand make sure you have the body to back up the shirt,lean,ripped guys) for guys who weigh a bit more( a t shirt with words or design usually black with white words or design and a button shirt that is not buttoned will land you one nighters and women looking for something serious).

Feel free to try these tips and remember they are just tips so if they do not work on 1 woman try it on another one my success rate is pretty good with these techniques.

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