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Im pursuing this woman here is my situation / Re: 2nd time
« Last post by hajibaba on January 29, 2012, 07:42:13 am »We were both 19, she didn't get a job, we only talked for 5 min cuz i had to run off to work
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Im pursuing this woman here is my situation / Re: 2nd time
« Last post by datingcasanova on January 29, 2012, 07:38:32 am »Oh ok i see from what i can tell the break up that happened was and was not your fault im guessing she was pretty young when her dad got sick and she had to get a job early so it stressed her out and with you two arguing it added even more stress to the situation. The reason you guys only talk for 5 minutes now im guessing is because it reminds her of a time when she was most stressed and probably never want to be under that type of pressure again. Relax though because that does not mean you can not get her back the first thing you should show her is that you are a better man than you were in the past and that you understand that you were being harsh to her when she was under so much pressure tell her if you could take all the things you both argued about back you will and tell her you want to get to know the new her and things should start from there
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Im pursuing this woman here is my situation / Re: 2nd time
« Last post by hajibaba on January 29, 2012, 07:33:51 am »We broke up cuz she was stressed with school, and her dad was sick, so she "didn't want a relationship" Then we argued alot since i got her a job as a ring girl when we first hooked up. Now we talked for 5 min and it was pretty neutral.
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Im pursuing this woman here is my situation / Re: 2nd time
« Last post by datingcasanova on January 29, 2012, 07:30:35 am »Hey there hajibaba
I have a quick question for you how did you guys break apart and how are things between you two right now
I have a quick question for you how did you guys break apart and how are things between you two right now
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Im pursuing this woman here is my situation / 2nd time
« Last post by hajibaba on January 29, 2012, 07:27:12 am »I'm pursuing a woman, we not talked for 2 years after we broke up. She distrusted me, her family didn't like me.
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Im pursuing this woman here is my situation / Re: ???O'so Complicated???
« Last post by datingcasanova on January 18, 2012, 08:10:38 am »Glad to have helped keep with it though to keep the sparks flying so the relationship never dies out and another thing no matter if you are a player or looking for true love if you keep her happy she will make you extremely happy so keep up the text messages while she is at work so you can be on her mind through out the day
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Things that make you auto Qualify with men / Patience
« Last post by datingcasanova on January 18, 2012, 08:05:17 am »Another thing that men like in women is patience because we can be clueless A LOT so if you have the patience to bear with us until we get what is going on men will love you even more because they will realize that they were clueless but you did not make them feel bad about it and waited which is the best quality!
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Im pursuing this woman here is my situation / Re: ???O'so Complicated???
« Last post by yaboilanguage on January 17, 2012, 07:51:55 pm »As soon as i read you response i tried your technique. at first, i was waiting in limbo. when she finally responded i couldn't believe it. she was actually warming up, n opening up to other possibilities. she actually started initiating conversations. little things like that show improvement. i appreciate the help man
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Im pursuing this woman here is my situation / Re: ???O'so Complicated???
« Last post by datingcasanova on January 17, 2012, 01:04:39 pm »Hey there yaboi
Just read your situation and I have to say it's a pretty complicated thing that you are going through but I am here to help.
This is my take on this situation this female that you are pursuing does not want to give in on the chase too easy, because females think of romance as the chase, they want to make you feel like they can leave you at any second and that you should show her that you are strong and will pursue her, walk through hot coal, and jump through flaming hoops for her, this is their definition of romance.
So for your situation the chase for her is fun and exciting with her knowing she really does love you back. This only means you should answer back to her with something that will seal the deal. Something similar to girl i will jump through a flaming hoop for you i would (insert corny saying here) for you. She will open up, and though we men like to pretend to be stronger and dont want to do things like this but this is what most females want. As for you giving up that is not an option if you are in love with this woman she is worth it and from what you explained about her you really love her so giving up should not be an option or it will carry over into your conversations. Another technique is to look at her situation with her life and figure out what is the most thing complicating life for her? once you find that out counter the problems like if she does not like where she is at the moment tell her you will take her away from that place and create a better environment for her etc. hope this helps feel free to continue writing i will be waiting to help anyone who is reading this
Just read your situation and I have to say it's a pretty complicated thing that you are going through but I am here to help.
This is my take on this situation this female that you are pursuing does not want to give in on the chase too easy, because females think of romance as the chase, they want to make you feel like they can leave you at any second and that you should show her that you are strong and will pursue her, walk through hot coal, and jump through flaming hoops for her, this is their definition of romance.
So for your situation the chase for her is fun and exciting with her knowing she really does love you back. This only means you should answer back to her with something that will seal the deal. Something similar to girl i will jump through a flaming hoop for you i would (insert corny saying here) for you. She will open up, and though we men like to pretend to be stronger and dont want to do things like this but this is what most females want. As for you giving up that is not an option if you are in love with this woman she is worth it and from what you explained about her you really love her so giving up should not be an option or it will carry over into your conversations. Another technique is to look at her situation with her life and figure out what is the most thing complicating life for her? once you find that out counter the problems like if she does not like where she is at the moment tell her you will take her away from that place and create a better environment for her etc. hope this helps feel free to continue writing i will be waiting to help anyone who is reading this
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Im pursuing this woman here is my situation / ???O'so Complicated???
« Last post by yaboilanguage on January 17, 2012, 12:18:33 pm »I have strong feelings for my close friend's cousin. She's highly attractive, intellectual, and very independent. The problem I keep running into is, I never read her clues correctly. She would give me an opening, and I would fall right on my face, and not realize it till the next day. At times, everything is going great. Then, there are times when I just give up! I can tell she wants to be with me, but she's not willing to open up as of yet, due to her past relationship. Basically, I need help showing her that I'm gonna be there for her, to take care of her, and to love her.