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When to Leave Your Mate! / Re: When to Leave Cheating Mate
« Last post by datingcasanova on May 16, 2012, 12:51:37 pm »
Hello again lets finish the above and feel free to comment on these forums.

Now the ---- has really hit the fan for your relationship. Your mate can respond in 3 different with 2 ways being wrong and 1 way being the only way.

When to leave #1- Your Mate decides to feel empowered because you chose to give him/her another chance and thinks to himself/herself I can do anything and this fool will still try to take me back he/she is a push over time to have some fun!.......So they go out and cheat again and this time told you about them cheating and puts on an act of how sorry they are using excuses they were drunk etc. So now again you are at the crossroads on staying with this person or leaving this person. It is obvious from someone on the outside to say you should leave that person, but you are still in love and can not bring yourself to leave him/her. It happened a second time and your mate saw the pain and devastation that you went through the first time around and still let himself/herself bring you to that pain again, That my friend is when it is time to leave your mate or in this case your ex mate.
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When to Leave Your Mate! / When to Leave Cheating Mate
« Last post by datingcasanova on May 16, 2012, 12:43:05 pm »
So your mate cheated on you and you have always suspected them of doing it but when you ask she/he looks you in the eye and says no I have not cheated. Then later on someone sees you walking with your mate and ask hey is this your brother/sister and you say no i am her husband/boyfriend/fiance.....then they come out and say well I'm sorry me and her have been seeing each other for a while now his/her head drops and you get furious. Now you guys are back at home and you are enraged your mate is scared for 2 reasons of you snapping and cocking them a cold one and of you leaving. You then look him/her in the eye and say i asked you if you cheated on me you said no, he/she stands there silent this makes you even more upset so you pour out your heart and start to move around franticly, now your mate decides to say something and he/she says If i would of told you, you would of left me! you then look at him/her and think to yourself these very thoughts: How can a person be so selfish, how can he/she try to manipulate me by withholding the truth from me, If you loved me and did not want me to leave you would of not cheated no matter how bad things were! Now out of anger you raise your head because you hurt this pain you are feeling is nothing like you felt before and instead of yelling and throwing tantrums you sink into the floor with tears pouring. Your mate embraces you and says I am sorry, But you did not hear them for the pain was just too much.

Now lets stop here for a second because this is where you tell if you should leave your mate or stay with them
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When to Leave Your Mate! / Leaving is Not Easy
« Last post by datingcasanova on May 16, 2012, 12:38:05 pm »
Hello everyone Datingcasanova here, Some of my fellow members were asking questions on when is the right time to leave your mate.

    As most of you know it is never to leave someone in a relationship especially when you love that person. Fact of the matter you would be down right a cold person if you just left without trying to fix the relationship. I'm not going to talk about how to fix a relationship in this post, I will tell when you it is time to leave!!

You work all day and  tired  just wanting to come home and forget about all the stress that you dealt with at work, but you cant because when you get home there are more problems that you can deal with right now!
So you try to go into another room so you can just take a quick nap and clear your head but the person follows you into the room and keeps nagging about something that really isnt important.

Is this a reason to leave the person you might be asking.
The clear answer is no!

The Onlyreal reason to leave your mate is if they have cheated and show no signs of trying and i do mean trying to fix the problem, They constantly choose other people or things over you, or down right tell you that they do not need you!


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Im pursuing this woman here is my situation / Re: 2nd time
« Last post by datingcasanova on January 29, 2012, 08:18:00 am »
There is skype since she is on facebook I am assuming she has internet connection anything that you can voice chat with her about is great try this out and tell me if it worked for you later today 92% chance it will from past experiences but to be honest dating someone i dated before was not the same but i hope this works out for you
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Im pursuing this woman here is my situation / Re: 2nd time
« Last post by hajibaba on January 29, 2012, 08:13:30 am »
from posts on her wall,  i suspect that she lacks a phone atm
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Im pursuing this woman here is my situation / Re: 2nd time
« Last post by datingcasanova on January 29, 2012, 08:09:49 am »
yes though facebook is a way to communicate with someone it is not the best a phone/skype conversation you can hear the tones of the person voice that lets you know when not to say something and when to say something 47 miles is not far at all if this is the woman you are pursuing distance does not matter if you truly want to be with this person so i say your first step to winning her back is getting her number
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Im pursuing this woman here is my situation / Re: 2nd time
« Last post by hajibaba on January 29, 2012, 08:06:53 am »
we were and still can talk on facebook;  we live 47 miles away from each other;  she declined the first proposal,  after work i sent to her inbox a 2nd one
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Im pursuing this woman here is my situation / Re: 2nd time
« Last post by datingcasanova on January 29, 2012, 08:03:56 am »
Quick question if you guys did not exchange numbers how will you talk later? now on to the next thing if you were discussing some business proposal that is good also meaning you can get a place to meet up such as a diner or at one of your homes, first thing i would say to do is try to get her number to contact her do not do it as if you are hitting on her get it and say you are discussing the business proposal and once you guys meet up bring up the past relationship and she might be silent when you bring it up but its a good time for you to apologize even if you do not feel it was your fault
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Im pursuing this woman here is my situation / Re: 2nd time
« Last post by hajibaba on January 29, 2012, 08:00:08 am »
We didn't exchange anything,  alls we asked were how been and discussed a business thing and agreed to talk later
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Im pursuing this woman here is my situation / Re: 2nd time
« Last post by datingcasanova on January 29, 2012, 07:53:20 am »
Oh that is good did you at least exchange numbers because that made it seem like you were too busy for her and that you forgot about her and the past you have a small window of opportunity to get her back
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